PokerTracker

If you are not the hero or at the table in any of these hands and you import these hands into pt4, is there a way to filter for all the biggest pots without selecting a hero, which would then limit these hands to only ones that the specific player is at table.

If its completely not possible, are there other trackers or software that would allow for this? Thanks.

Go to the 'My Reports' section and create a custom 'Hand Report':

Guide: Creating My Reports

You can filter from every players point of view if you click the 'Filters' link, select 'Add New Expression Filters' and turn off the 'Filter on Active Player' option.